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How To Know If You Should Get Married

Watch more Wedding Survival Guide videos: Subscribe to Howcast's YouTube Channel - Know if you should get married by asking yourself a few important questions. Howcast uploads the highest quality how-to videos daily! Be sure to check out our playlists for guides that interest you: Subscribe to Howcast's other YouTube Channels: Howcast Health Channel - Howcast Video Games Channel - Howcast Tech Channel - Howcast Food Channel - Howcast Arts & Recreation Channel - Howcast Sports & Fitness Channel - Howcast Personal Care & Style Channel - Howcast empowers people with engaging, useful how-to information wherever, whenever they need to know how. Emphasizing high-quality instructional videos, Howcast brings you experts who provide accurate information in easy-to-follow tutorials on everything from makeup, hairstyling, nail art design, and soccer to parkour, skateboarding, dancing, kissing, and much, much more. Step 1: Take notice of how you treat each other. Happily married couples say five nice things to and about each other for every one negative exchange. Tip Researchers have found that if a woman rolls her eyes when her fiance is talking, it's a huge red flag. Step 2: Rate your sense of humor. If you find the same things funny and laugh a lot, that can keep you laughing into old age together. Step 3: Check if you and your betrothed present a united front. If one of you says "I" more than "we" it could signal a lack of readiness to give up single life. Tip The chance of a couple ending up in divorce court is greater if the man scores low in the "we" test. Step 4: Consider your "how we met" story. Are your respective answers short or long? Romantic or ho-hum? Told with affection or not? Couples who are expansive when recounting their stories have a better chance of living happily ever after. Step 5: Critique your fights. If either of you has a tendency to escalate conflicts, that's a bad sign. If the male partner responds to conflict by withdrawing from the argument, that's even worse. Tip Fighting itself is not linked to divorce; the key is to handle disagreements calmly and respectfully most of the time. Step 6: Consider other factors that increase the risk of divorce, like getting married under the age of 25, lacking higher education, earning a low income, having different religions, and coming from a broken home. The fewer of those categories you fall into, the better your chance of marital harmony. Step 7: Know that you have the power to determine your future. Now that you've learned the behaviors and attitudes that can lead to divorce, you don't necessarily need to call the whole thing off; take steps to adjust them. Did You Know? In a 1946 poll, people said the ideal marrying age for a woman was 21; a 2006 survey pegged the ideal age at 25.
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