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How To Get a Date With Absolutely Anyone

Watch more How to Ask Out Someone videos: Subscribe to Howcast's YouTube Channel - No one is out of your league if you know how to woo them. Check out the dating tips in this Howcast video. Howcast uploads the highest quality how-to videos daily! Be sure to check out our playlists for guides that interest you: Subscribe to Howcast's other YouTube Channels: Howcast Health Channel - Howcast Video Games Channel - Howcast Tech Channel - Howcast Food Channel - Howcast Arts & Recreation Channel - Howcast Sports & Fitness Channel - Howcast Personal Care & Style Channel - Howcast empowers people with engaging, useful how-to information wherever, whenever they need to know how. Emphasizing high-quality instructional videos, Howcast brings you experts who provide accurate information in easy-to-follow tutorials on everything from makeup, hairstyling, nail art design, and soccer to parkour, skateboarding, dancing, kissing, and much, much more. Step 1: Dress nicely Dress nicely, but don't overdo it. Being overdressed or too sexy makes you seem desperate, which is always a turn-off. Step 2: Smile Smile at the person who's caught your eye—but do it the right way. For women, that means smiling while eyeing his body appreciatively. For men, it means holding her gaze. Step 3: Approach with a good opening Approach the person and say "hi." Then deliver an opening line that includes both a "we" statement and a personal question that involves the person's feelings, such as, "If the band is as good as I've heard, we're in for a great night. Are you into rockabilly?" Tip Note to men: stay away from sexual innuendo—a big turnoff to women—and go with gallantry, like rescuing a woman from the guy who's serving up the smut. Step 4: Learn names Memorize the person's name and use it. People find it flattering, and transfer those good feelings to you. Tip Note to women: tell him he has beautiful eyes. One survey found this is more successful in scoring a guy's interest than offering to buy him a beer. Step 5: Ask quirky questions Ask quirky questions. A study of speed daters found that the woman picked for a date by every man was not the prettiest; she was the one who asked, "What's your favorite pizza topping?" Tip People who share an exhilarating and/or scary experience—like, say, a mechanical bull at a bar—bond quickly, because they confuse their feelings of excitement with attraction to their partner. Step 6: Talk about agreeable things Steer the conversation to agreeable topics. Yelling about nuclear disarmament or which God is the real God is best left for after the third date. Step 7: Offer to buy dinner Seal the deal by asking the person to dinner. Not drinks, which makes you seem uncommitted. Not coffee, which makes you seem cheap. Actual dinner. Did You Know? "I'm going to be busy for the next few weeks" is man-speak for "I'm not that into you."
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