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How to Ask Your Partner to Get Tested for STDs

Watch more How to Have a Safe & Healthy Sex Life videos: Subscribe to Howcast's YouTube Channel - Ask your partner to get tested for STDs using the suggestions in these steps on how to approach the subject. Howcast uploads the highest quality how-to videos daily! Be sure to check out our playlists for guides that interest you: Subscribe to Howcast's other YouTube Channels: Howcast Health Channel - Howcast Video Games Channel - Howcast Tech Channel - Howcast Food Channel - Howcast Arts & Recreation Channel - Howcast Sports & Fitness Channel - Howcast Personal Care & Style Channel - Howcast empowers people with engaging, useful how-to information wherever, whenever they need to know how. Emphasizing high-quality instructional videos, Howcast brings you experts who provide accurate information in easy-to-follow tutorials on everything from makeup, hairstyling, nail art design, and soccer to parkour, skateboarding, dancing, kissing, and much, much more. Step 1: Be straightforward Be straightforward and honest. Tell your partner you want to talk about sex and STDs. Tip Mention any symptoms or indicators you may have noticed on you or your partner. Step 2: Keep positive View the discussion as a positive step in your relationship. Your willingness to talk about a difficult subject is a sign that you trust your partner and you want them to be able to trust you. Step 3: Relieve stress Mention that getting the results of an STD test will make sex less stressful for you and your partner, and will bring the two of you closer together. Tip Offer to get tested together. Step 4: Listen Listen to your partner during the conversation -- don't do all the talking. Instead, let the conversation flow naturally. Step 5: Be responsible Remind your partner of the responsibility both of you have to get tested if you plan on having children. Infections like syphilis and hepatitis B can be transmitted from the mother to the fetus. Step 6: Avoid jumping to conclusions Avoid jumping to conclusions. Just because your partner refuses to get tested for STDs doesn't mean they are cheating or have an STD. But don't back down -- continue to explain how important it is to you to get tested. Tip If you're worried about your health, consider refusing sexual contact until your partner is tested and the results come back. Step 7: Make an appointment Make an appointment with a clinic or doctor to get tested. Step 8: Stay protected Protect yourself by using condoms. Condoms protect against transferring STDs like HIV, chlamydia, syphilis, and gonorrhea. Now you can rest easy knowing both you and your partner have been tested. Did You Know? According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, over 1.5 million cases of chlamydia and gonorrhea were reported in 2008.
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