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How To Ask a Guy Out

Watch more How to Ask Out Someone videos: Subscribe to Howcast's YouTube Channel - Learn how to ask a guy out so that he says "yes" with these suggestions. Howcast uploads the highest quality how-to videos daily! Be sure to check out our playlists for guides that interest you: Subscribe to Howcast's other YouTube Channels: Howcast Health Channel - Howcast Video Games Channel - Howcast Tech Channel - Howcast Food Channel - Howcast Arts & Recreation Channel - Howcast Sports & Fitness Channel - Howcast Personal Care & Style Channel - Howcast empowers people with engaging, useful how-to information wherever, whenever they need to know how. Emphasizing high-quality instructional videos, Howcast brings you experts who provide accurate information in easy-to-follow tutorials on everything from makeup, hairstyling, nail art design, and soccer to parkour, skateboarding, dancing, kissing, and much, much more. Step 1: Ask the time When you spot a guy with potential, ask him what time it is. He'll probably suspect your question is just an excuse to talk to him, giving him the opportunity to either take the bait or not. Tip Eighty-nine percent of men interviewed in a 2004 dating survey said they find approaching a woman in a bar nerve-racking, so don't you be shy about making the first move. Step 2: Look your best If you have a particular guy in mind already, pave the way to dating by looking your best whenever you think you will see him, making friendly conversation, and finding reasons to touch him. Tip Seventy-two percent of men polled in 2004 survey said they were attracted to their last date because she seemed friendly, chatty, and approachable. Step 3: Act confident Act confident, even if you're not. In many cases, if you act like it's a given that he'd want to go out with you, he will! Tip Know the difference between confidence and aggression. Aggression comes across as desperation, which is not how you want to be perceived. Step 4: Bite the bullet Bite the bullet. Have a specific activity or plan in mind, like going to a movie or dinner, and simply ask if he'd like to go with you. Step 5: If for some crazy reason he says no, take the news in stride. Smile, say ok, and remind yourself that he's just one guy--plenty more where he came from! Step 6: Keep trying Keep trying! Remember: The more guys you approach, the more likely you are to get a date and second one, and a third Did You Know? When two people split the bill on a date, it's called "going Dutch," because that has always been the custom in Holland.
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